{"id":945,"date":"2022-05-14T09:00:08","date_gmt":"2022-05-14T06:00:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bilgiuzmanim.com\/?p=945"},"modified":"2022-05-14T02:18:49","modified_gmt":"2022-05-13T23:18:49","slug":"kardes-catismalari-nasil-firsata-cevrilebilir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bilgiuzmanim.com\/kardes-catismalari-nasil-firsata-cevrilebilir\/","title":{"rendered":"Karde\u015f \u00c7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 Nas\u0131l F\u0131rsata \u00c7evrilebilir?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuklar aras\u0131nda ya\u015fanmas\u0131 en muhtemel sorunlar aras\u0131nda <strong>karde\u015f \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131<\/strong> yer al\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle 2-6 ya\u015f \u00e7ocuklar\u0131nda karde\u015f k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile birlikte \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar meydana gelebilir. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma olduk\u00e7a do\u011fald\u0131r. Buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k anne babas\u0131n\u0131n karde\u015fler aras\u0131ndaki sorunlarda g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi genel tutum olumlu \u00e7ocuk davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 i\u00e7in olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemlidir. Karde\u015f \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 ya\u015fan\u0131rken anne baban\u0131n herhangi bir su\u00e7lu aramadan ya da herhangi bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu su\u00e7lamadan bu durumu f\u0131rsata \u00e7evirme imk\u00e2n\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n \u00f6zellikle yanl\u0131\u015f davran\u0131\u015flarla ilgili fark\u0131ndal\u0131k kazanmas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00fcst\u00fcnde durulmas\u0131 gereken \u00f6nemli bir durumdur.<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_53 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-light-blue ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\">\u0130&ccedil;erik Tablosu<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-66c6c9f0ddb04\"><span class=\"\"><span style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-66c6c9f0ddb04\"  aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/bilgiuzmanim.com\/kardes-catismalari-nasil-firsata-cevrilebilir\/#Kardes_Catismalarinin_Nedenleri_Nelerdir\" title=\"Karde\u015f \u00c7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131n Nedenleri Nelerdir?\">Karde\u015f \u00c7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131n Nedenleri Nelerdir?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/bilgiuzmanim.com\/kardes-catismalari-nasil-firsata-cevrilebilir\/#Kardes_Catismalarina_Karsi_Yanlis_Anne_Baba_Davranislari_Nelerdir\" title=\"Karde\u015f \u00c7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131na Kar\u015f\u0131 Yanl\u0131\u015f Anne Baba Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 Nelerdir?\">Karde\u015f \u00c7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131na Kar\u015f\u0131 Yanl\u0131\u015f Anne Baba Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 Nelerdir?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/bilgiuzmanim.com\/kardes-catismalari-nasil-firsata-cevrilebilir\/#Anne_Babalar_Kardes_Catismalarini_Nasil_Egitim_Firsatina_Cevirir\" title=\"Anne Babalar Karde\u015f \u00c7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 Nas\u0131l E\u011fitim F\u0131rsat\u0131na \u00c7evirir?\">Anne Babalar Karde\u015f \u00c7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 Nas\u0131l E\u011fitim F\u0131rsat\u0131na \u00c7evirir?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Kardes_Catismalarinin_Nedenleri_Nelerdir\"><\/span><strong>Karde\u015f \u00c7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131n Nedenleri Nelerdir?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Karde\u015fler aras\u0131nda anla\u015fmazl\u0131k ve uyumsuzluk her zaman olabilir. Bununla birlikte s\u00fcre\u011fen hale gelmi\u015f <strong>karde\u015f \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 <\/strong>\u00e7ocuk geli\u015fimi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan olduk\u00e7a risklidir. Karde\u015fler k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir durum nedeniyle ya da \u00f6nemli bir durumdan dolay\u0131 \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma ya\u015fayabilir. Ancak <strong>\u00e7at\u0131\u015fma \u00e7\u00f6zme <\/strong>becerisi olmayan bu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n nas\u0131l davranacaklar\u0131n\u0131 bilmedikleri de unutulmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Karde\u015fler aras\u0131nda ya\u015fanan anla\u015fmazl\u0131k durumlar\u0131n\u0131n birinci nedeni anne baban\u0131n ilgisinin azalmas\u0131d\u0131r. Karde\u015fin do\u011fumu ile bir ilgi azalmas\u0131 meydana gelmi\u015fse ya da \u00e7ocuk bunu hissetmi\u015fse \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma ya\u015fanabilir. Anne baba aras\u0131nda ya\u015fanan \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma ve anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar da \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma ya\u015famas\u0131na neden olabilecek durumlar aras\u0131nda yer al\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Kardes_Catismalarina_Karsi_Yanlis_Anne_Baba_Davranislari_Nelerdir\"><\/span><strong>Karde\u015f \u00c7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131na Kar\u015f\u0131 Yanl\u0131\u015f Anne Baba Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 Nelerdir?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-947\" src=\"https:\/\/bilgiuzmanim.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/kardes-catismalari-nasil-firsata-cevrilebilir-1.jpg\" alt=\"Karde\u015f \u00c7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 Nas\u0131l F\u0131rsata \u00c7evrilebilir?\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Karde\u015f \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 farkl\u0131 sebeplerden kaynaklan\u0131yor olabilir. \u00d6zelikle 2-4 ya\u015f aral\u0131\u011f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuklar benmerkezci d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce yap\u0131s\u0131 nedeniyle anne baba ilgisinin s\u00fcrekli kendi \u00fczerinde olmas\u0131n\u0131 ister. Bu d\u00f6nemde yeni bir karde\u015fin d\u00fcnyaya gelmesi \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in bir kayg\u0131 kayna\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Bu ve ilerleyen d\u00f6nemlerde <strong>\u00e7ocuklar aras\u0131nda \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma <\/strong>ya\u015fanmas\u0131 olduk\u00e7a do\u011fald\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Anne babalar karde\u015f \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda genellikle bir panik havas\u0131na kap\u0131larak \u201c\u00c7ocu\u011fum karde\u015fini sevmiyor.\u201d \u015feklinde bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye kap\u0131l\u0131r. Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyle hareket eden bir anne baba olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flara kar\u015f\u0131 istemeden ortam olu\u015fturmu\u015f olur. Anne babalar karde\u015f \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 s\u0131ras\u0131nda genellikle durumu yok sayarak ya da cezalara ba\u015fvurarak \u00e7\u00f6zmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle ya\u015f\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck olan \u00e7ocuk cezaland\u0131r\u0131l\u0131rken k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011fun korunmas\u0131, de\u011fersizlik hislerinin \u00e7ocukta yerle\u015fmesine neden olur.<\/p>\n<p>Karde\u015f \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 <strong>yanl\u0131\u015f ebeveyn tutumlar\u0131 <\/strong>ile basit bir k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k seviyesinde kalmaz. \u00d6zellikle durum kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda bir su\u00e7lunun arand\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve yanl\u0131\u015f davran\u0131\u015flara y\u00f6nelik fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n sa\u011flanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 durumlarda \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar, sald\u0131rganl\u0131k ve \u00f6fke olarak geriye d\u00f6ner. Bu ya\u015f d\u00f6neminde sald\u0131rganl\u0131k davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n yerle\u015fmesi, okul d\u00f6neminde ciddi sorunlar\u0131 meydana getirebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Karde\u015fler aras\u0131 ya\u015fanan \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda en b\u00fcy\u00fck sorunlardan birisi ise anne ve baban\u0131n tutars\u0131z tutumlar\u0131d\u0131r. Anne ve baba davran\u0131\u015flar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda farkl\u0131 tepkiler veriyorsa olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n s\u00f6nmesi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Evlili\u011finizde yolunda gitmeyen bir \u015feyler mi var?\u00a0<a class=\"post-title post-url\" href=\"https:\/\/bilgiuzmanim.com\/cift-terapisi-nedir-nasil-yapilir\/\">\u00c7ift Terapisi Nedir, Nas\u0131l Yap\u0131l\u0131r?<\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Anne_Babalar_Kardes_Catismalarini_Nasil_Egitim_Firsatina_Cevirir\"><\/span><strong>Anne Babalar Karde\u015f \u00c7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 Nas\u0131l E\u011fitim F\u0131rsat\u0131na \u00c7evirir?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Anne babalar a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ya\u015fanan <strong>karde\u015fler aras\u0131ndaki \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131<\/strong>\u00f6nemli bir sorun olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclse de do\u011fru yakla\u015f\u0131mla \u00f6nemli bir e\u011fitim f\u0131rsat\u0131 haline gelir. Karde\u015f \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda <strong>olumlu <a href=\"https:\/\/tr.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ebeveyn\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">ebeveyn<\/a> tutumlar\u0131 <\/strong>\u00f6zellikle \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma \u00e7\u00f6zme becerilerini kazand\u0131rmas\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00f6nemlidir. Karde\u015fler aras\u0131nda ya\u015fanan \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar \u015fu alanlarda beceri kazand\u0131rmak i\u00e7in e\u011fitim f\u0131rsat\u0131d\u0131r:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00c7at\u0131\u015fma \u00e7\u00f6zme becerisi,<\/li>\n<li>Duygu e\u011fitimi,<\/li>\n<li>Olumlu davran\u0131\u015f e\u011fitimi alanlar\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 geli\u015ftirebilirsiniz.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar sorun ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131nda herhangi bir su\u00e7lama ya da cezaya ba\u015fvurmadan \u00f6nce \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 dikkatli bir \u015fekilde dinlemelisiniz. \u00c7ocuklara olumlu ve olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flarla ilgili ev i\u00e7i etkinlikler yapt\u0131rmak, yap\u0131lan yanl\u0131\u015f davran\u0131\u015fa kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak ve olumlu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 peki\u015ftirmek beceriler kazand\u0131rmada \u00f6nemli ad\u0131mlar olacakt\u0131r. Olumlu davran\u0131\u015flarla ilgili hik\u00e2yelerden yararlanmak, boyama \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 yapt\u0131rmak ve animasyonlardan yararlanmak <strong>karde\u015f \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 <\/strong>i\u00e7in yap\u0131labilecek \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar aras\u0131ndad\u0131<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuklar aras\u0131nda ya\u015fanmas\u0131 en muhtemel sorunlar aras\u0131nda karde\u015f \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 yer al\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle 2-6 ya\u015f \u00e7ocuklar\u0131nda&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":946,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[41],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgiuzmanim.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/945"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgiuzmanim.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgiuzmanim.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgiuzmanim.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgiuzmanim.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=945"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/bilgiuzmanim.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/945\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":949,"href":"https:\/\/bilgiuzmanim.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/945\/revisions\/949"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgiuzmanim.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/946"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bilgiuzmanim.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=945"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgiuzmanim.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=945"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bilgiuzmanim.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=945"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}